The Ultimate Internet Image Begins with The Ultimate Real World Relationship
I have been in business in one way or another for almost my entire adult life, since the age of 19. The power of relationship building, regardless of the setting, from the army to academia, has been the reason for my success and has defined who I am today.
Several wise men and women have all echoed the same sentiment:
Your Business Defines and is Defined by Who You Are as An Individual!
I would agree with the above and expand upon it:
We Are Defined By Our Commitments to Each Other and By How Well We Honor Them!
Interestingly, as a salesperson, I never worked well with others, my peers I mean.
Why?
To be perfectly frank about it, I was never a very good salesman!
What I have always been is a very good people-person!
I have never made a sale in my life, and yet I have made tens of thousands in a single month selling.
Why?
Because I do not sell anything, ever, I build a relationship and the sale takes care of itself!
The thing most salespeople miss, the quality I built a reputation and several businesses on, is the relationship!
The sale is the beginning of the relationship, not the end. In fact, everything flows from that initial transaction…the sale comes later.
Let me explain!
At times a sale is made because someone has a specific and immediate need.
The Process!
However, very often the sale is preceded by a process. The process is initiated by a connection of some sort, a feeling out process, if you will.
The Connection!
The connection is made and, if comfortable and determined to be mutually beneficial, it leads to a relationship.
The Relationship!
The relationship is built upon a connection, if the connection is found to be a good one, mutually beneficial to both parties, a relationship is formed.
Trust!
Trusting someone is a big step, difficult for many, impossible for some…and for good reason!
However, without trust, there will be no transaction…of any kind! The relationship is the first test in the process of developing trust.
Interestingly, the Internet has brought forth an amazing transformation, the world is indeed a smaller place. Social media is a window into our thirst for connections, for relationship building, and for friendship…but it entails trust!
Social media marketing, when misunderstood, is often a perversion of the relationship building process.
Social media marketing attempts to capitalize on the longing for connection and relationship building.
Interestingly, most fail to get the nuances of the milieu and pervert the relationship building process, failing miserably and claiming that social media marketing doesn’t work!
Social media marketing fails because the marketer is focused on the marketing and not on the relationship…the center, the linchpin of it all!
Social media is a mirror into the psyche of modern humans; and, it has yielded an interesting challenge:
Who can we trust? In fact, can we trust anyone?
It is a sad commentary on life when the most common phrase most people think of when they think of trust is:
“Don’t trust anyone!”
So, how do we develop trust? How do we break through the defenses in place?
Time and Effort = Results and Experience!
With time, patience, and effort, baby steps if you will, we achieve noticeable results and that experience allows trust to grow. The more time, the more effort, the more results…and our experience with an individual or company builds.
The Bond of Friendship!
With time and effort trust allows a bond to form and the bond builds and friendship is born!
Friendship may have many different forms but the process and the basis are the same:
Connection…Relationship…Time….Effort….Bond…Friendship…Sacred Trust!
To be perfectly honest with you, I’ve had very few clients in my life, fewer customers…I have had a lot of friends who I do business with!
You see, if a friend trusts you with their livelihood, you will honor that relationship with the best you have to offer!
If you provide the best, and take every relationship, marketing or otherwise, to heart, you will never fail.
If a friend trusts you with his or her business, they are demonstrating the ultimate form of trust.
Why?
Because their livelihood, in fact their well-being, and that of their loved ones, is in your hands!
Sacred Trust!
Ultimately, if you take this approach and internalize the mindset, you will never fail! In fact, you will have more business than you can possibly handle!
If you view every relationship as a sale, part of the marketing process and nothing more, you are doomed to repeated
failure.
Success and/or Failure is a Consequence of Mindset!
If you treat your customers as clients, your clients as friends, your friends with the same trust they place in you, and honor it, you will never go hungry for business or the real nourishment we all crave…
…the connection, built into a relationship, yielding trust, solidified by a bond, resulting in a lifelong friendship made stronger by the sacred trust conferred upon those we value enough to call…friend!
The money will take care of itself…always!
In fact, money will become an afterthought!
The real value, what defines us, will be the number of friendships we have forged over a lifetime.
Time and Effort
The satisfaction of helping others, the effort, combined with time, yielding a friendship and building into a sacred trust will yield success beyond measure:
Financial – Personal – Spiritual!
Treat your customers as clients, your clients as friends, and your friends as family…you will never know lasting failure!
Contact me anytime!
John
Professor John P. J. Zajaros, Sr.
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